Saturday 4 February 2017

I don't understand


I don't understand how people can be so horrible? I'm talking about the people that make fun of people who are either doing something different to what is considered the 'normal hobby' or to people who simply dress differently, or talk differently or are just different in general. There is so much pressure on everyone to be a 'certain way' now and it's disgusting. There's even pressure in what someone wears, how someone does their makeup, or who someone is in a relationship with.

The harsh reality is we're all struggling with things in our own life, we all have shit to deal with and that is just life. No one needs that extra shit, being laughed at or made fun of no one fucking deserves that. For example at school, we can all think of people who get made fun of or are the center of people's jokes instantaneously. The fact that we can think of these people off the top of our heads is sad. Maybe it's just me but usually the people who get picked on are some of the nicest people you could ever meet, and they definitely don't deserve that. Imagine being afraid to walk into school or going shopping for fear that you're gonna be laughed at by people who clearly have nothing better to be doing. Going to school at least once everyday someone is laughed at, someone is made feel like shit and that is not fair. What gives that person the right to think it's okay to ruin someone's confidence like that? Nothing. Nothing gives anyone the right to belittle someone like that, but yet it's happening everyday all over the world.

I just have one thing to say to the people who laugh and belittle others, how the fuck would you feel if the tables turned and you were being laughed at? Just stop and focus on your own life, and leave people alone. You don't have to love everyone but you don't have to hate on them.

I have gotten made fun of and laughed at sometimes over my Blog and my YouTube channel, and being honest that hurt me so much. I have wanted to have my own Blog for years and my own YouTube channel for a while, I was super excited to finally do it but absolutely terrified. My Blog was the first of my adventures I guess and I love it to bits, I just love how you can communicate with people and it's perfect. I got a few people saying they didn't like it and even a few people saying they hated it. That's fine I don't expect everyone to love me or what I do. But if you don't like someone you usually don't want anything to do with them or let alone read something they've written, or in turn watch a video they've made. On the bright side at least I'm doing something I want to do with my life. And who the fuck knows maybe it won't be successful but that doesn't matter I'm still doing the things I love yet the person making fun of me or others is hating on me..

You can't control what people say about you but you can control how you feel about it. The reality is everyone's going to have something to say about you and not all will be lovely and sweet. You do you and don't let's someone else bring you down, life's too short for that.

Fiona.